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Go ahead. Get ahead of yourself
Dr Jonni

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Go ahead. Get ahead of yourself

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I'm a transpersonal psychologist with 35 years of experience interpreting what's actually happening under the surface. The patterns, timing, dreams, relationships, and  stuff that doesn't make sense until it suddenly does.
I write here the way I work: deep, direct, and more interested in what's true than what sounds comforting.

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This week, eclipse season closes.

The lunar eclipse on the 3rd is a blood moon, which means total, red, and impossible to ignore. It also means it’s the end of a cycle that’s been building since 2024. So, whatever’s been unfinished, unresolved, or overstaying its welcome… this is when it completes. Necessarily and definitely.

I’ve said a million times, eclipses don’t ask permission. They clear what’s ready to go, whether you’ve made peace with it or not. And they make room so you can move into what’s next.

That’s the invitation this week. The clearing isn’t the end. It’s the opening.

What to expect

Things might feel tender. The eclipse lands on Monday night (Yes, that’s 3/3). At 3:33 am to be exact. I know! And the days around it can stir up old emotions, old patterns, even old versions of yourself you thought you’d outgrown. They need to be released, so let them surface. 

The fog will lift. Even though we’re in Mercury Retrograde, there’s a moment next weekend I’d call a clearing in the retrograde, and something clicks. Think of it as the thing you’ve been trying to understand suddenly becomes obvious. Trust it and write it down. S

So bold first, then softer. Got it? 

It’s best if you stop dreaming about what you want and start going after it. Directly. With less apology and hesitation, because the pace picks up from here.

The belief that won’t survive this week

“I shouldn’t get ahead of myself.”

You’ve heard it your whole life. ‘Slow down. Be realistic. Don’t count your chickens.’

But I believe that getting ahead of yourself is exactly how change works.

You step into the new version before the old one is fully finished. You say yes before you’ve figured out how. And you commit before you’re certain.

The eclipse this week is clearing space, but not so you can wait. It’s clearing space so you can move into what’s next, even if it feels too soon. And even if you’re not sure you’re ready.

Getting ahead of yourself isn’t reckless. It’s how you meet the life that’s waiting for you.

Why this matters (and what I made for you)

I’ve been building something for exactly this moment. I talked about it a few weeks ago. 

It’s called Getting Ahead of Yourself, and it’s a three-part hypno-meditative series for meeting your future self.

It’s not a vision board. There’s no goal-setting exercises. It’s something more intimate than that.

You’ll meet the self you’re becoming if things keep going the way they’re going and nothing much changes. You’ll feel that in your body, not just your head. 

And then you’ll meet the self you could become if you chose differently. 

You’ll sit with them both. Listen to them. And let them show you what’s possible.

Most of us treat the future like a stranger: abstract, distant, and someone else’s problem. So we make choices for right now and avoid the hard conversations. We choose comfort over clarity. And then one day, we look up and realize we didn’t choose this life. It just… happened.

Well, this series is about changing that.

What’s included:

Three hypno-meditative audios —

  1. Arriving – Settling in. Remembering you’re the author of your own life.
  2. Two Futures – Meeting the self you’re drifting toward, and the self you could become.
  3. Living Forward – Learning to stay connected, so the relationship becomes ongoing.

Plus a short reflection guide before and after each audio.

And there’s two ways to do it:

Self-guided: $77 — Three downloadable audios + three reflection guides. Work at your own pace. Here’s the link.

With UNLIMITED: $177 — Everything above, plus 10 days of correspondence with me, beginning the day after purchase. Write to me as often and as much as you like. Tell me what’s coming up. Ask the questions you don’t have answers to. That’s what I’m here for. Same link.

Eclipse season is clearing the room this week. Now the question is, what do you want to put there?

Your future self already knows. Might be time to ask them.

Jonni

P.S. Each audio is about 20 minutes. No scripts to follow or homework to complete. Just you, listening. Once it’s yours, it’s yours. For every future self you meet along the way.

P.P.S. The UNLIMITED option means you’re not doing this alone. For 10 days, I’m in your inbox 24/7, responding when something lands weird, when you’re not sure if what you saw was real, when you need to say it out loud to someone who won’t think you’re crazy, when the second audio cracks something open and you don’t know what to do with it, when you’re standing at a crossroads and need someone who’ll help you make sense of it all. That’s the part people tell me changes everything.

P.P.P.S. Eclipse season is the most potent time of the year for this kind of work when things are already shifting, and you’re more open to seeing clearly. If you’ve been waiting for a “right time,” this is it.

P.P.P.P.S. You don’t have to be “good at meditation” for this to work. You just have to be willing to sit still and be a little bit curious about who you’re becoming. That’s the whole job.

Go ahead. Get ahead of yourself

Hi, I'm Jonni

With 35 years of experience and a PhD in transpersonal psychology, I blend deep wisdom with grounded presence, helping you find clarity and meaning in each chapter of your unfolding story.

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